昨晚回去媽媽的家探望,看見她被滾水燙傷得很嚴重的雙手,心裡很是難過。因為紅腫的雙手外面的皮膚被燙掉了,露出粉紅色的裡層真皮膚,可以想像得到當時她的痛楚程度吧。我的說話雖然是帶點責備,怪責她為何時常都是這麼不小心,粗心大意地面對廚房的工作。弄傷雙手還是要往外去。還要恨駡弟弟為何不好好照顧她,但係心裡其實是十分痛心的。看著她可憐的雙手及表情,也只好將責備的說話收歛了。要知道事情已發生了,勞氣也於是無補,為著健康,自己是須要平撫、安靜情緒才是。 唯昐媽子的傷勢快點好過來,因為她的糖尿病是會對其雙手的復原有一定的影響。媽子,你的忍痛能耐令我非常佩服,給你送上祝福。
I went to Mother's home yesterday night. I discovered that her hands were scalded with hot water 10 days ago. I felt very upset when I saw the wounds were deeply hurt. The tegument of her hands losed. The 'real' skin was exposed with 'pink' new skin. It could not be imagined how painful she did suffer at that moment. I blamed her why she always so careless, how she was negligent in doing the kitchen jobs and why she still went outside not stay at home for rest, why my brother unattended to her....... My heart was really really feeling distressed. By seeing her painful hands and poor expression, I stop my blames to them and great sorrow. I should knew that the incident has been happened and blame and angry was not the right thing to do. In the cause of keeping my health and temper, I should be calm down and manipulate the mood. Nothing can do but do wish her speedy recovery. In effect of the diabetes, it may not be easy for her wound to recover well. Mom! I really admire your bearable ability and I do bless you and wish you all the best.
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