Separation is a difficult decision, especially when you are not willing to break party. Even if a relationship has become boring and will of the break is still heartbreaking. Trauma than the physical damage by the creation into a larger, but will affect the physical and mental health, it is difficult to eat, insomnia and inability to think clearly. If coupled with the pressure of homework, the situation is even more worrying.
The following points to help you understand the process of parting look after themselves. As you sick, like the end will gradually recover over, to re-enter life.
Ten things about breaking up

1. To break off the party abandoned the party usually associated with the same sadness. Do not think breaking up, he would no longer be nervous you are. He cared about you, and you want to maintain the relationship, but not necessarily the kind of relationship before.
2. Nobody likes to hurt others, especially the one who had been so close. Generally speaking, when one side wants to break up, the other side is very easy to take advantage of each other's sense of guilt to keep him. Do this! When you use guilt to sustain a relationship, you are fooling ourselves, but will only make you hate each other and deepen in the future harm and suffering.
3. He put it to you to break up, does not mean that you have done something wrong. But this relationship can not continue to be maintained. Try do not think the other's refusal was directed at you from personal problems. Many great men have tried to relationship breakdown - breakdown of their relationship has nothing to do with their personal values. Similarly, the failure of your feelings with your personal values has nothing to do.
4. When discarded, the crying and feeling the pain can be, these are normal feelings. However, to help your mood in a safe situation, in front of friends or family members vented out. Even if your ex-partner did something wrong, but also a target Do not him as a vent. The sooner you drop him, they will begin as soon healed.
5. Breaking up is not an easy task. Your emotions will be a great ups and downs. If one day you have a special emotional, do not blame their own --- after all, you are human.
6. Breaking up, there is usually one will be to launch a new romance. This matter will be brought back all your memories. If you think you should be better than the other, because of his / her new love and despair, it does not matter, which is normal. Let your frustration for a while, it is one step in the process of healing.
7. Yinfennuer to acts of revenge for all any good. After breaking up do not mean or vicious rumors spread. Do not betray your trust in others, to his secret information to others. If the split involves a third person, do not attack him behind. Malicious behavior will only make you get hate, and you derive satisfaction, but also short-lived. The ultimate feel worse.
8. Mostly from the pains of breaking up the feeling of embarrassment. We fear the views of outsiders. Even if you make some strange lines lead to breaking up, and do not feel embarrassed. Put down the feelings of embarrassment that can help you get healed faster.
9. No one should be hurt. Your ex-lover should not be because you feel hurt and victimized. Your former lover's new love (if any) should not be because of your jealousy and hurt. Even if you have done some evil deeds which led to breaking up, you should not be harmed. Breaking up of course caused much pain, they should not complain, or immersed in a lot of "if" them. Face the reality, let your anger fade away, your pain will disappear.
10. Things that seemed to have no hope, but you never know what the road ahead waiting for you. Perhaps one day you will be complex, perhaps not. A mistake to abandon the relationship, so that love still exists between you. If you do everything to heart, full of hostility, so that the other party no choice but to hate you, leave you, this will be tantamount to rejecting a bright future. Why not the decency to let the other party to leave, in order to leave room for future development of both sides, even if only to do back to a friend Ye Hao.



After breaking up, you will taste the different feelings, including shock, denial, anger, depression, and sometimes require complex. This is normal. In the fully accepted before the matter is, mood will be very unstable. I feel like a deep sadness will last a lifetime. But the pain will gradually be reduced in a few weeks later. Is such a serious affair, but it is not your life, the only one