honestly i actually quite like the personal space that we give toward each other.. at least it is something that i never experiences ebfore... when i was young, i always think dating needs to be with the other person for 24 /7 but as i grew older i realized dating is giving personal space toward the other person... there's also somethign i learn from the dating relationship with you is be more generous and trust worthy, and forgive and understanding.... this is a new experiences i learnt.... of course i'm not saying is a good idea if we don't hang out after school, it just i like the personal space on saturday and sunday... it gave us a good personal space of wanting to hang out with friends, relax, or even more just doing own business... this is the importances among the dating relationship, knowing when is the time of letting go for others personal space... and datign someone is not taking his life over and controlling him not to able to do this and that...dating doesn't mean to own the other person as a property.... but to let free and know when needs to be free and tight... but so far so good... i like this communication ways...

I was thinking this morning if one day i don't text you, would you text me by yourself? if i don't call you, would you call me? if i don't talk to you, will you talk to me? if i'm sad, will you come over and give me a hug and not say a word? if i'm happy, will you just laugh with me (just the world is left with the two of us, laughing crazily?) if i cried, will you wipe the tears off my face with your gentle hands and telling me everything be alright? if i kept hitting you, will you hit me back and said i'm all yours to hit? if i want the moon, would you picked the moon for me? if i'm not around, will you miss me? if i want to be with you  forever, will you let me?

Yesterday night, was not a good night, because i didn't felt good and i had a lot of pain... that pain is a bitch trust me... but whenever i felt the pain, i shoute dyour name three times and then i would be alright... then this morning, you called me, and after speaking with you on the phone, i felt better, and you're my medicine... really really?? i can tell you really cares about me... and everything else... and i really like it for you caring for me... and for everything it made me suepr sweet... you know? let me tell you a secret, i never though i could have a great gift since last broken relationship, but you're the one tha tpulled me out of hell... and you're the one that gave me the courage to love again and willing to give out my heart and to trust again that i will not have a broken heart into pieces...i can't say how much you meant to me, but if i need to say, you mean the whole world toward me...thanks a million... someone asked me which relationship i liked better, but I said is uncompareable because is two different person and is two different feelings... because of hurted and being left behind, it leads to i will be more cherish and cares, and  be more understanding for the other's point of views... thank you I really appreciate for you teaching me and making both of us learning together... for the past three months, we been together, it felt longer and it is just a small memories, i hope i can stayed with you longer and now and furture... and creat more memories in between us for futher ahead...one thing i thank god is I'm glad you accpted my past ... thank you god gor giving you as the biggest gift to me...

     若果眼睛和耳朵都能選舉性失效，我們就不會看見不想看的、聽到不想聽的了......
　　一開始的戀愛，我們都用眼睛凝望對方．在眼中反映出自己樣子時是多麼美好。

       我們也會用耳朵去聆聽對方的心底話，所有甜言蜜語都灌入我們的耳中，在腦海中一直重覆、一直徘徊。只可惜，是愛到了盡頭了嗎？
　　女孩看見男孩偷偷與另一位她談電話，看見男孩說不再愛女孩的訊息，看見男孩由從前寵愛的眼神變成了冷酷無情。女孩亦聽見男孩把以往告訴女孩的情話也告訴了另一位她，聽見男孩數說女孩的不是，聽見男孩說要離開的。女孩子又能怎樣？
　　你知道女孩有多難過嗎？一想到男孩的笑臉從女孩眼中消失，一想到男孩要離開女孩的生活圈子，一想到男孩身邊的位置不要屬於女孩，女孩的淚水便一發不可收拾了。要是能夠選擇性失明，女孩便不會看到男孩的背叛、最無情的一面，要是能選擇性失聰，女孩便不會聽到男孩的冷嘲熱諷，更不會聽到那句「分手」從一個曾說永遠一起相愛的男孩口中出來吧。是女孩太樂觀地幻想著他們的愛情是不會出錯，是女孩太愚笨相信男孩所謂一生一世的謊言，還是一切都是女孩太愛那個男孩？
　　這樣選擇性的失效，你要不要？你會選擇欺騙自己，帶著愛他的心情一起關到一個黑暗的地方，回憶過去的美好，還是你會勇敢面對，期待下個男孩？(from xanga)

拍拖前：
男人很想拖心儀女性的手，因為拖了，意味著她已成為你的女友。(boys... trying to hold a girl's hand and then be yes this is a victory)

拍拖初：
男人經常要拖著女朋友的手。總之男人與女友的手就如磁石般，每時每刻也吸得實一實。那怕在滿手是汗的夏天，亦或是凍得令人發僵的冬天。(we're still this, waited till the winter, my hand is frozen as ice)

拍拖久了：
男人開始不再講求拖手，當被別人問到何解。男人都答：「都拍了這麼久，沒所謂吧！」但被女友質問，卻又支吾以對，急急拖回。( i know a pair of couple is going throgh this trouble, i hope this will not happen, of you not holding my hand)

結婚有孩子後：
男人更不會拖妻子的手。因為不是自己拖著孩子的手，就是因妻子抱著孩子而不能拖手。(so even when a woman carrying the baby, the man can still hold her hands... objection against this) (from xanga)