today while went to work...since it s so boring..so i talked to Bell,,( Robell?)...the guy from somewhere in Africa,,who came to united states when he s a little..so i could say he s my first black good friend..haha....finally ..knew some black ppl...both of us talked everything,found as many topics as we could..he told me i looked like a bit like korean ,by lookin' my eyes....oh..no wonder there were some ppl had thought that i would be korean ....bell s sayin' that he knew what the differences asian ppl had....so he could recognized whose japanese,korean,and chinese....etc....i wasnt sure how he could have that special techniques,lol..it s gd thing though....and he told me he wouldnt be active talking to asian guys coz he thought mostly they couldnt understand english...but he said i could understood him and what he s talkin' abt,lol...thx,bell,,i did appreciate that,lol..how did i reply to him? well...i was just being modest as what asian ppl would be,lol...i said:actually..there were many asian ppl who could speak english,and even better than me...probably they just dont tend to speak english rather than their first language....and then he asked me if i have gone to any parties at all....and i said i havent...i told him i was shy talking to american gals..i would become talking like mumbling...and it was kinda embarrased if they didnt understand ya...and didnt know what ya 're talkin' abt,,,and said what the hell you were talking abt,,shut the fuck up,,sth like that..and Bell just laughed..haha..i found that perhaps i had potential to be a comedian,lol....then he said:no,dont be shy,just be active, open, nice, and funny...what should ya scared of,huh? just go ahead and do it"....and he said: there are vietnamese and other ppl from different background going to parties to know/get along with american gals....if you didnt understand or saying not clear...just laughed...and then they 'd laugh too.....he taught me this,...lol.......this few days while at work....we had been talking with each other,..its been so much fun.....we discused abt some history, like world war, or a little of hk background/ development...etc...and one day....he rapped a song for me ,,the title is used by my name: kafai..lol... it s so kool.man....he s like he could sing sth out immediately abt me...basically abt where i was from..and some other stuffs abt myself..its ryythmic...not quite remember it =.= ..nice to hear....and he rapped another ...didnt remember wht it s like...seems abt gals...i had heard he used "bitch" in his lyrics. after he finished rapping and i asked him why used that word so many...he said gals liked to hear that...lol...sometimes they liked boyz called them that ,lol...and sometimes you have to be rude/ cruel to them,,so they'll listen to you...well..thats somehow fitted into how asian man treated asain women.......whatever...