Another year on July 7, Chinese valentine's day, the day the rain as usual. For cowherd zhinv myth, as well as for the understanding of love, different age, different s, people will have different feelings.
Remember childhood, every July seven, always willing to gather together to adults, grinding the adults tell the myth of the same one thousand - the story of niulang and zhinv. At that time, although not understand what is love, can always like to listen to before a - niulang and zhinv how to encounter, and how to love each other, upturned face, watching the adults alacrity expression also follow happy; Don't like to listen to how to use the heavenly queen hair clasp to draw a Milky Way, separate the gigolo knit. Well, the end of the story is every year on July 7th, the magpies bridge, perfecting two people good love legend, otherwise don't know how many tears streaming to follow.
Adults often talked about in the end, xu had to emphasize the authenticity of the story, perhaps really believe, always mysteriously attached statement: "the July 7 this world rain, is the cowherd and zhinv reunion happy tears; when the Tanabata night under the grape trellis, you can hear niulang and zhinv confidences said." Had naively believe that was silly to squat down under the grape trellis, looking up at the mysterious sky, pious to listen...
Young, gradually understand: the story of niulang and zhinv is a beautiful fairy tale, however, is the world's young men and women to pursue good love a yearning, but also is a writer's heavenly queen of a prototype of feudal patriarchal image, no longer to do stupid things "squatting under the grape trellis. At that time, more willing to look at Chinese love scene "butterfly lovers" and "white snake", a beautiful love story in the butterfly lovers to the sublimation of butterflies in the beautiful music; Also in the "on the coasts pour out" to shine! Also want to see the foreign romance novel, "romeo and Juliet", where the concept of sacrifice for love, the noble soul, thoughts rooted in his soul to remain faithful to the love.
Youth, the love of their desire. Hope your love is like the beauty of the flower, compares himself to a rising above the sinful violet, just waiting for the repair to is predestined friends the human to come to pick in one thousand. He found thousands of baidu, meet a person, a city to die, therefore, winding, do not change the original oath.
Middle age, it is I have shaken on love ideas, perhaps more than I see, may be looking at a lot of people around, throw off the yoke of the marriage, and out of the marriage, I don't know I love concept, is right or wrong? Once upon a time, I have a best friend, into the marriage hall. Twenty years ago I want to divorce, and her family take turns to persuade, to children, she didn't off, has been painful, after children go to college, suddenly ended the marriage in name only. In the face of this result, I regret the lobbyists, my loyal love, destroyed my girlfriends happiness over the past 20 years, destroyed the good good times in her life, how cruel I am?
Love is easy, be together. In real life, how many love to vigorous, then silently over. Materialistic, money society, when the outside world too much temptation are marriage against the wall, the wall of the love can secure prison? I can't imagine, if had niulang and zhinv, butterfly lovers, xu xian and the white niang son, romeo and Juliet to their life together, until today, how will? Whether there will be a beautiful love story through the ages to sing?
Chinese valentine's day, despite the hesitation, still believe there is true love, hope all shall be well, jack shall have Jill!
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