Stephen Mak 於 2008-07-02 01:12 AM 發表：

>30th year old is coming in a eye-wink? (translated your chinese into english, sorry... don't like to type Chinese...)

Anyway, 30th years old isn't really "that" old... the most important is being "Young at heart... :-)"

[ 回覆 ] [ 封鎖 ] [ 刪除 ]

小花 於 2008-07-01 09:56 PM 發表：

EVVE,actually hearing your previous response did make me step forward to my decision,
today I've told my boss that I want to quit, but he suddenly has sth to do so we didn't have a chance
to talk. He told me to see him tmw... I hope at least we will have good communication upon the matter.

[ 回覆 ] [ 封鎖 ] [ 刪除 ]

EVVE 於 2008-06-30 08:30 AM 發表：

Haahaa, successful life? To the contrary. You know the ones that try to help others are the ones that need help most. Hopefully by helping others we are able to gain insight about ourselves.

I have gone through (and still going through) many of the same struggles, so I'm happy to share my experience. If you think there are too many responsibilities now that are holding you back, your shoulders will only get heavier as you get older. So if you want to pursue something, NOW is the time to do it. The longer you delay, the less likely it's going to happen. And know that circumstances, environment, mentality, people change all the time. You never have the same opportunity twice.

[ 回覆 ] [ 封鎖 ] [ 刪除 ]

quietearth 於 2008-06-29 09:09 PM 發表：

Evve,thanks a lot for your reminds! Your advices are always inspiring...
Although I don't know who are you, nor what are you working about...
But I'm sure you are a very clear-minded person who is running a successful life!
THANK YOU SO MUCH, cheers~

[ 回覆 ] [ 封鎖 ] [ 刪除 ]

EVVE 於 2008-06-28 03:03 AM 發表：

As I recall, the main reason for you to stay with your current job is 1) stability to complete your education; 2) income to pay for study/ living expenses. If those two are not your top priority anymore and you can do something else to achieve them, then move on! It's only in the difficult times of life that we realize what our priorities are.

Also, education is about advancement and nourishment. If your current education is holding you back in realizing your dream(s), perhaps you need to investigate if you are putting your time in the right place.

And lastly, don't let the age factor hinder you. At every stage in our lives, we go through different things and develop new ideas. Age 30 is not the end. Average life expectancy these days is 85-- there are many interesting things that you can explore for another 50+ years!

I hope it helps to put things in a more positive light.

[ 回覆 ] [ 封鎖 ] [ 刪除 ]