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2018 年 5 月 18 日 星期五  |
| 上大學後 |
分類: 未分類 |
早在讀小學時，我就納悶，農夫遇到凍僵的蛇有什么好憐惜的?
上了中學，有了一定明辨是非能力後，更覺得《農夫與蛇》荒唐!蛇這東西瞧著就不善，平時不動不哼，像條軟繩，但拿在手裏，滑膩膩直讓人發怵;一旦動起來，更會令人毛骨悚然而想馬上丟棄;如果是一條凍僵的蛇，可能更像一根棍子，如何揣進懷裏?又豈敢揣進懷裏?要知道，懷裏面藏著心，那是放最珍貴東西的地方，能隨便放入不知死活的蛇?那才真叫不知死活呢!
上大學後，更有了一定科學知識，再回味《農夫與蛇》，簡直是扯淡!人與蛇物種不同，蛇能知恩圖報才怪!蛇不咬人才怪!
步入中年後，我對人生和社會有了一定了解，開始否定中小學甚至大學時期的幼稚，對《農夫與蛇》的寓意深刻逐漸領會和歎服，並結合自身的經曆，以此自慰和療傷。
但，過了不惑之年，我對《農夫與蛇》反而開始惑了，並喜歡雞蛋裏挑骨頭和糾結細節，認為它應該有以下幾個版本。
原版是，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，便將它揣進懷裏溫暖，結果，蛇蘇醒後咬死了農夫。
糾結的中心問題便圍繞入懷，喝杯老鹰茶吧。”云端上的环境适宜种植老鹰茶。如今是人 。
浪漫版是，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，卻想起了《白蛇傳》、《天仙配》之類的神話傳說，便將它幻想成美女擁入懷抱加以調戲和猥褻，褒義講是揣進懷裏溫暖，但決不排除異想天開之嫌。結果，蛇蘇醒後果真含情脈脈，只是在撒嬌過程沒有掌握好分寸，一口叼住農夫赤裸裸的胸膛，將其毒死了。
屬於誤傷。
經濟版是，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，聯想到目前市場上蛇價飛漲，更有望出口賺取外彙。如果它是一條母蛇，那么再捉住一條公蛇的話，蛇蛇出蛇，總有一日蛇山蛇海，那時便發跡了!如果它是一條懷孕母蛇，那就更省事了!總之吧，這是一本萬利的事!出於對“洗具”的追求，“杯具”隨之而來。
這屬於誤“倒” 。
現代版是，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇……“靠!為什么總要拿農夫和蛇說事?” 有人這么問我。原因是，一個正常人，比如牛健般農夫，發現一個弱者，比如僵硬的蛇，往往會不分青紅皂白地伸出援手泛濫愛心，殊不知可憐人自有可氣之處的道理，不幫他找出可憐緣由，不僅累及自己，他能獲救否?於是便像遇溺者抓住了二把刀救援者，同歸於盡!試想，農夫身體僵硬之後，蛇能獨活?
這屬於費力不討好!
矯情版是，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，偏不信世人對毒蛇能危及生命的忠告，一定要親自討個說法，於是，最終不行了。
這屬於求實惹的禍!由此引發的，還有逆潮版、寵物版、打破常規版、試圖感化版，等等。
舉個打破常規版的例子吧，又叫土豪版，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，思量著：別人都掛金項鏈，咱再掛那玩意兒就不足為奇了，若是掛條活蛇該多有派!於是，農夫將蛇掛在胸前，蛇也就把他掛了!
後現代版，農夫在路邊發現一條凍僵的蛇，便將它揣進懷裏溫暖。其實呢，農夫早已身懷絕症，而且痛不欲生。於是，他希冀以毒攻毒或許能置之死地而後生，成功則生還，不成功則能幹脆擺脫痛苦，還落得個成仁的好名聲。殊不知，他的成仁行為卻將痛苦轉嫁給了家人、親朋好友，以及千千萬萬後世讀者。
還有，還有……
天呐!真不知，如果我能活到古稀之年，《農夫與蛇》還能出什么么蛾子!
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| 新年漸近時 |
分類: 未分類 |
新年漸近時，系裏的一名博士從上海探親歸來，她不遠萬裏帶給我一副春聯。那喜慶的紅色，讓我這個海外遊子，借著記憶的翅膀，飛過重洋，返回了節日裏的故鄉。
掬一捧光陰，凝眸回望，在北方皚皚的白雪中，故鄉的臘八粥飄著誘人的醇香，讓年味漸漸濃鬱。此時，父母開始給家裏大掃除，准備歡歡喜喜過大年。在我的童年時代，物質尚顯匱乏。每逢過年，北京的姑媽就托人捎來一包帶魚和十幾斤大米。這些寶貴的東西，是姑媽用供應券排著長隊買來的，也是她從自家人嘴裏節省出來的，喝杯老鹰茶吧。”云端上的环境适宜种植老鹰茶。如今是人 。
除了姑媽的珍貴禮物，在北京生活的奶奶，會把一些精美的舊掛曆，卷成一個大紙捆，帶給我做練習本。在那個飽含愛心的大紙捆裏，有許多名人的字畫，那曾是一個藝術的天堂。在那些舊掛曆裏，當我看到齊白石老人造型簡練、妙趣橫生的畫面時，曾愛不釋手，像得到了一件無價之寶。冥冥中，它們竟成了我的藝術啟蒙老師。
母親在世時，過年總會包餃子。那時，按照家鄉春節吃餃子的習俗，餃子一般要在年三十晚上十二點以前包好，待到半夜子時再吃。母親說：老人們認為半夜子時，正是農曆正月初一的開始，吃餃子取“更歲交子”之意，“子”為“子時”，交與“餃”諧音，有“喜慶團圓”和“吉祥如意”的意思。母親做的餃子，曾是我記憶最深的美味佳肴。
記得母親在做餃子餡時，會把一些吉祥的東西，像糖、花生包到餡裏，以寄托她對家人的美好盼望。母親還告訴我們：吃到糖餃的人，明年的日子會更甜美，吃到花生餃的人，會健康長壽。當母親把包好的餃子放到滾開的水裏，餃子在鍋裏像個調皮的孩子，很快便浮上了水面。母親把一個肉鼓鼓的餃子，放到碗裏，用筷子夾開。頃刻間，薄皮大餡的餃子，便濃香撲鼻，讓人垂涎欲滴。
在做餃子時，母親曾對我說：“過年包餃子，也是把這一年不順利的事，都包進去，盼來年順順當當的。祈福不在跋山涉水，而在一片真心。”長大後，我漸漸懂得了母親的心思：在包餃子時，母親最大的樂趣是家人的參與。餃子像一個小小的紐帶，在冰雪紛飛的冬季，讓全家人圍在一個桌子旁，父親擀皮，母親邊聊天，邊教我們姐妹包餃子。那一刻，曾是全家人難忘的幸福照。
來到國外後，母親的餃子也伴隨我跨出國門，走向世界。在美國過春節，大多是和朋友一起在家聚會。每逢此時，我喜歡親手制作餃子，因為在包餃子的過程中，我不僅能重溫兒時的記憶，神遊故鄉，還能與活在心中的母親相逢。過年的餃子，托意寄懷，情長旨遠。
在辭舊迎新之際，身在美東，遠眺故鄉，拳拳之心，切切之思，遙遙牽掛。我又想起奶奶舊掛曆裏的精神財富，姑媽在貧困年代，從北京贈送的珍貴帶魚、大米。那親人厚重的情意，綿綿久長，年年相伴，滴水之恩，當湧泉相報。
當新春倒計時的鍾聲快敲響時，美國的春節卻不放假。作為生活在海外的第一代移民，我肩贍養父母的重任，盡管自己就像一個搬磚的工人，手裏抱著磚，就無法擁抱自己的親人;若放下手裏的磚，又無法養活自己的親人。但每逢佳節倍思親，雖不能每年回家與長輩團聚，我總會用一封家書，一張支票，一個包裹，以心還鄉，並遙寄深深的祝福!
時光如梭兮，羊年乘雲去;春風將至兮，金猴落大地。美國的東部，今年出現了暖冬氣候，少了故鄉“瑞雪兆豐年，冰鑲樹掛，晶瑩剔透”的美景，不免讓人遺憾。但在春節來臨之時，我將在除夕的夜晚，點燃家中暖暖的壁爐，和先生一起包餃子。包好的餃子，我會放在紅色的春聯旁，一盤隔著時空孝敬父母，一盤留給做住院的兒子。在我心裏，代代傳承的家之溫暖和親情，就是過節時的幸福和唇齒留香的年味! |
| 2018 年 4 月 23 日 星期一 |
| After turning around |
分類: 未分類 |
, go to the fleeting time, write a winter snow to live together, then write down a person's vicissitudes in the snow, and one song, one dream. In the valley of the years, love is deep and shallow, and the watchmen are in the same place. The old dream is like an open, and the flower is full of flowers. The other side of the moon is the blue sky of the rain. Such as dream, heart like clouds, in the vast sky, lingering is you give me a touch of sweet. This life has love, only because of previous existence, in the fleeting time, standing Cape, but can not hope the other shore, only because the other shore has a dream, only because there is no dream in you.
Welcome the winter to the winter, the wind blows the levee willow, a road alone walk alone, a scenery a person slowly, perhaps our first so-called love, but is a stranger flowers, deep in cloud smoke, those oath, but also the finger tips of the sentimentally attached, again meet the familiar intersection, each other has no deep affection of the past. To greet This 1 Pieceof MagicalDecor WillTransformYour BarCart in the Best. 。 I think this life can stand for you as a charming scenery, but you will forget it. Who's wrong?
Time will bring us to the end of many stories. Quiet people, in the time to heart, more stable, the time to wear those sad past, occasionally remembered, only a kind of memory, feet on the ground, at the foot, in life, there is always a way, we must go, maybe rugged, also flat, rugged, as a experience, as a experience, To be flat is to be happy. Looking at the city of the sky and the clouds, I wonder if there is a legend of butterflies in every cloud. Our story is also in a cloud, sleeping and sealed. Love is a dream. I always oversleep and have no time to dream. |
| Three thousand |
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the world is floating around. How much love is there? How many red men and green girls are the strangers in the world? How many days old vows, all in the wind. The dusty men and women, the end of the bodhi tree. Drink Zen tea, read chapter scriptures, see Bodhi flowers fall, and flowers. On the back of the Zen bag, walking through the dust, Castle Peak curtain, water for Taiwan. To ferry the red dust, the water is the road, the lotus for the boat.
Who has the gift of true feelings, who has buried it with a flower hoe and tears? Mottled years, records of the fleeting time, those horses and the time spent in the que que words from the deep shallow. Moonlight is like water, cold, cold, clear, away from the past, the memory of the pearl chain fell to pieces like a dream of love. Perhaps, this life, you and I are doomed to travel in this troubled world, a journey of dreams, without flowers or fruits, without beginning or end.
The night is exile in the spirit of the music, slowly flowing, the time flow, the flourishing season, the chord, the quiet heart, like this music, a little bit of once memory, different tones of different stories, and a thousand kinds of sentiments in the night of water, in the music to whirl a person. Life.
Who was in tears in the past? The plot of yin and Yang has been staged for thousands of years and is still being repeated. Who made a bitter dream with beautiful lies? And who locks the tender feelings of the world with deep eyes?
What musical instrument should be used to compose this silent love song, the vicissitudes of this world? Your casual, I write with my life, your eyes, I sigh with the world. How do you edit this section?
A chance encounter is destined to be the vicissitudes of your life. In August, the sweet scented osmanthus, you laugh, I use my life chasing, and I, but I have accomplished your hands can not clear picture, from the crazy posture, splash ink, but hand in the pen, lightning fluttered and go, left a remnants of no one can understand, only a hundred years later, with the broad body copy, square can reproduce. The original pen, now the wreckage, is so plain. |
| 2018 年 4 月 18 日 星期三 |
| Modern young people |
分類: 未分類 |
are busy and stressed during the day. They choose to release themselves at night, enjoy the night time, and often fall asleep very late. If you stay up late for a long time, your skin will start to turn dark and yellow. There will also be wrinkles and long patches, which will affect the image. So how often stay up late to maintain the skin? Xiaobian reminds the Amy people to pay attention to the following problems.
1, late to sleep, not late to wash
Traditional Chinese medicine believes that skin care should comply with the changes of the environment and body condition, so do not wait until sleep before cleaning the skin. Try to reduce the skin burden and prevent acne acne. Cleansing can be used at the same time to remove makeup and clean two in one cleansing milk, 2 minutes to clean. Some cleansing milk containing acid or salicylic acid has a deep cleaning effect. Salicylic acid, in particular, is the only complex component that can really penetrate the hair follicle at present. It improves the speed of keratinocyte metabolism, reduces the accumulation of waste and toxins on the skin, and allows you to stay late and stay away from the weary face.
2. The replacement mask quickly improves drying
If you are worried about overcoating every day, you can use the moisturizing beauty liquid to soak the paper mask and apply it to the face after cleansing. 10 minutes later, the moisture in the mask will be dried by the skin, then spray a layer of make-up water. After 5 minutes, the skin will become moist and tender, and even if you do it every day, you don't have to worry about overburdening the skin. If there is no paper mask, you can apply a tissue paper to your face and spray moisturizing lotion on the paper until the tissue is soaked and 1~3 minutes This wasnot adecisionthat Itook lightly. . 3, do a good job of high moisturizing care
Sleep late, stay up late, and excessive fatigue make skin lock dry and dry. So after cleansing, we should quickly apply the beauty cream with good moisturizing effect and easy absorption. It is best to fill the beauty solution with the make-up cotton, until the cotton cotton is transparent, you can see the finger, then start from the center of the face, and gently press the skin with the strength of the skin a little down. It needs to be smeared around the eye around the eye and around the mouth easily. The dry cheeks should be daubed fully, and the whole palms are used to gently press the residual make-up water on the skin to fully infiltrate the skin.
Use the essence before 4 and zero
Try to finish the essence liquid smear before midnight, which can make the nutrients in the essence play the best. Some nocturnal repair essences containing nano osmosis technology or a variety of plant essence are more likely to penetrate deep into the skin, strengthen cell vitality, and promote metabolic cycle. Like implanting invisible cell engines in the skin, you don't have to take time and effort to massage, and the nutrients can be absorbed by an untouched whole.
5. Detox night cream against late sleep
Even if you do not fall asleep at 23:00 before the best liver detoxification time, you can also apply the essence late cream with the function of detoxification before 23 points, and massage with a simple 30 second massage when smearing. It can promote blood circulation, improve the vitality of cell metabolism and exclude the skin toxin waste, which will greatly reduce the injury of the late night. Occasionally need to strengthen maintenance, can be coated with a thick as a good night mask, a multi purpose.
6. The trick of applying the evening cream
Face cream, first with the face five points (forehead, cheeks, nose and chin) evenly wiped the cream, with the palm of the heart parcels the whole face for 5 seconds, then the residue in the palm of the cream, along the skin to the skin, with left hand right neck, right hand to the left neck 10, can simultaneously play the tight neck skin, prevent skin, prevent the neck skin, prevention and prevention of the skin, prevention and prevention of the skin, prevent the skin, prevention and prevention of the skin at the same time prevention The effect of wrinkle relaxation.
Often staying up late will accelerate the aging of the skin, take on the old age gently, and the black eye and eye bag will also make people look less spiritual, so do not stay up late. In daily life, we must form good habits, try to sleep early and get up early, and ensure enough sleep. Don't play your cell phone for a long time before bed, create a good sleeping environment and help yourself fall asleep earlier. |
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