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2016 年 5 月 4 日  星期三   晴天


愛情定義 分類: 未分類

無數人問:“愛情是什麼?什麼是愛情?”,其實這個問題誰也沒有真正的答案,哪怕是心理學家。每一個人對愛情的看法跟見解都是不一樣的,但是愛情最主要在於適合不適合,現實不現實,還有就是你到底喜不喜歡。

很多人羡慕別人的幸福,那是因為她們遇到了對的人,只是你的那個人還未出現,人生如潮,起起落落,在這變遷的歲月�堙A我用孤獨的心情,走過了時光潺潺的長河也許出現了你卻沒有發現。有時候感情來的措手不及,走的毫無防備,我們能做的只有接受,面對現實。

不要去幻想你的未來,不要去幻想你的愛情,因為當你幻想的未來跟愛情並不沒有實現,反而跟幻想的相差很多的時候,你會感覺很失望,很失落。若你擁有伴侶的時候,你也會對對方很失望跟失落,這樣的感情不長久。

不要去歎息自己沒有人要,因為每一個人都不會沒人要,在於緣分跟把握還有珍惜,一段緣分,不管它長久還是短暫,那麼都請好好珍惜好好呵護好好把握,一段感情都不容易,擁有時請好好擁有,那麼當別離時不會留下遺憾。

不要去說自己配不上對方,因為愛情世界沒有配不配,只有合適不合適,彼此喜歡不喜歡,愛與不愛。真正相愛的人,不會去在乎別人的眼光,甚至忽略別人的看法。

不要自卑,對方都已經完全接受你,你又為何去自卑?這是給自己心靈的壓力,給對方是一種煩躁與疲憊,因為誰也不想要整天說自己不好的伴侶。

感情世界�堶n學會去接受,學會去主動,學會去追求。

當一個人害怕接受對方的心意,當你不敢接受時,又為何去抱怨自己沒人愛,當別人愛你的時候,你選擇與他(她)擦肩而過,這是一種遺憾,哪怕後悔也再也無法彌補。

學會主動,你喜歡對方,但是卻不敢踏出那一步,不敢去跟他說自己的愛意,那麼當有一天他跟別人在一起的時候,你會特別恨自己不夠勇敢,偶爾留下深深的遺憾。

學會追求,喜歡一個人就去追求,不管對方如何,只要自己認為是對的,就該放下所有尊嚴,拋掉所謂的面子。

還有就是學會分辨,如今虛假太多,學會去瞭解一個人,學會去看懂那個人,你不了解不看懂,就算你再喜歡她也會分開。這有兩點,第一點.一個人真的喜歡對方,就會很努力的去瞭解去看懂。第二點.你不了解不看懂,怎麼知道對方是否是真心。

問清楚自己的心,你追求什麼樣的愛情,你想要得到什麼樣的愛情,不要擁有了一段感情,你卻發現這不是你要的,不但浪費了青春,也傷害了別人,這又何必。

不要盲目的去接受任何一段愛意,因為甜言蜜語任何人都會說,因為‘我愛你,我喜歡你’沒人不會說,愛從瞭解開始,不了解有何資格去談愛?甚至有人問起,你喜歡對方什麼?有些人總回答‘喜歡他的一切’,那全是放P,喜歡他的一切那麼你就會接受他的一切,他說地球是方的就是方的,這才是喜歡他的一切。

往往不知道怎麼說,才會去說喜歡他的一切,沒有人真的喜歡一個人的一切,這樣的回答很假很假。

戀愛中的人往往是最傻的,傻到可以為對方付出一切,只有當被傷了才明白自己到底是多麼的傻。交往中請給自己留下餘地,給自己一個保留,因為沒有結婚的愛戀全是沒有保障的,當你毫無保留把自己交出,當有天分離,你註定痛徹心扉。

懂得去體驗,去承受,當你不敢體驗感情的時候,你沒資格羡慕別人的幸福,其實這樣的幸福你也會有,而你因為害怕受傷害選擇了逃避。當你不懂得去承受,甚至害怕承受的時候,那麼你不會擁有你夢�堛熒R情,因為感情需要用心去承受,不管幸福傷心還是心痛,這些是必然的,沒有人是不去承受的。

不要總抱怨自己傷的太深,不要總埋怨老天不公平,每一段感情都是公平的,當你選擇那段感情的時候,它必然是會發生的,對方的離開請想想自己的不足,不 要去恨對方離開自己,有時候恨不如恨自己,因為這一切是你自己選擇的,當然最好別恨,而是選擇去想,想想為何會分離,這樣給自己多一點知識,給下一段感情 多一點防備。

不要渴望梁山伯跟祝英臺,羅密歐跟朱麗葉,牛郎跟侄女,她們的愛情是流芳百世的佳話,但是她們的愛情是短暫的,甚至相愛卻不能一起,這樣的愛情你們真的渴望麼?

看清現實,學會辨人,懂得承受,經得起考驗,不要去追求轟轟烈烈,平平淡淡的愛才是最神聖的。

不要去渴望別人的愛情,因為這樣的愛情你也會有,只是時間的問題,還有就是自己個人心理問題,真正喜歡你的人不會輕易放棄你,放棄你的人那麼說明他不適合你,你應該慶倖自己可以找到最好的。

當看了這篇文章,在幻想�堛漱H,請回歸現實。迷茫的人,請放開心情,因為你會遇到屬於自己的。傷心的人,請展開嘴角,終有一天你會笑的很幸福。單戀的人,請告訴對方,不要留下遺憾。在一起的人,請好好珍惜,因為一段感情不容易。



2016 年 3 月 3 日  星期四   晴天


answer this gentleman.' 分類: 未分類

 

'You will have to say something,' I replied. 'Suppose you get up and say that you will speak this evening at the court-house yard.'

"Mr. Lincoln mounted the board seat, and as the crowd got sight of his tall form the shouts and cheers were wild. As soon as he could make himself heard he said,—

"'This is Judge Douglas's meeting. I have no right, therefore, no disposition to interfere. But if you ladies and gentlemen desire to hear what I have to say on these questions, and will meet me this evening at the court-house yard, east side, I will try to

"Lincoln made a speech that evening which in volume did not equal the speech of Douglas, but for sound and cogent argument was the superior. Douglas had charged Mr. Lincoln with being in favor of negro equality, which was then the bugbear of politics. In his speech that evening Mr. Lincoln said,—

"'Judge Douglas charges me with being in favor of negro equality, and to the extent that he charges I am not guilty. I am guilty of hating servitude and loving freedom; and while I would not carry the equality of the races to the extent charged by my adversary, I am happy to confess before you that in some things the112 black man is the equal of the white man. In the right to eat the bread his own hands have earned he is the equal of Judge Douglas or any other living man.'

"When Lincoln spoke the last sentence he had lifted himself to his full height, and as he reached his hands towards the stars of that still night, then and there fell from his lips one of the most sublime expressions of American statesmanship. The effect was grand, the cheers tremendous."

Senator Douglas accepted the challenge, and the famous debate was arranged which for public interest and forensic ability has never been surpassed or equalled in any country. Seven dates and towns were selected, and the debaters were placed on an equal footing by an arrangement that alternately one should speak an hour in opening and the other an hour and a half in reply, the first to have half an hour in closing.

In addition to his seven meetings with Douglas, Lincoln made thirty-one other set speeches arranged by the State Central Committee during the campaign, besides many brief addresses not previously advertised. Sometimes he spoke several times a day, and was exposed to a great deal of discomfort and fatigue which none but a man of his physical strength could have endured. He paid his own expenses, travelled by ordinary cars and freight trains, and often was obliged to drive in wagons or to ride horseback to keep his engagements. Mr. Douglas enjoyed a great advantage. He had been in the Senate several years and had influential friends holding government offices all over the State, who had time and money to arrange receptions and entertainments and lost no opportunity to lionize him. Every Federal official, for weeks before the joint meetings, gave his attention to the arrangements and was held responsible by Mr. Douglas for securing a large and enthusiastic Democratic audience. He was accompanied by his wife, a beautiful and brilliant woman, and by a committee of113 the most distinguished Democratic politicians in the State. He travelled in a special train furnished by the Illinois Central Railroad, and in charge of Captain George B. McClellan, who was then its general manager. Every employee of that road was a partisan of Douglas, voluntary or involuntary, and several times Lincoln was compelled to suffer unnecessary delay and inconvenience because of their partisanship. Many a time when he was trying to get a little sleep in a wayside station, while waiting for a connection, or lay in a bunk in the caboose of a freight train, the special car of his opponent, decorated with flags and lithographs, would go sweeping by.

A gentleman who accompanied him during the canvass relates this: "Lincoln and I were at the Centralia Agricultural Fair the day after the debate at Jonesboro. Night came on and we were tired, having been on the fair grounds all day. We were to go north on the Illinois Central Railroad. The train was due at midnight, and the depot was full of people. I managed to get a chair for Lincoln in the office of the superintendent of the railroad, but small politicians would intrude so that he could scarcely get a moment's sleep. The train came and was filled instantly. I got a seat near the door for Lincoln and myself. He was worn out, and had to meet Douglas the next day at Charleston. An empty car, called a saloon car, was hitched on to the rear of the train and locked up. I asked the conductor, who knew Lincoln and myself well,—we were both attorneys of the road,—if Lincoln could not ride in that car; that he was exhausted and needed rest; but the conductor refused. I afterwards got him in by stratagem."

The meetings were attended by enormous crowds. People came twenty and thirty miles in carriages and wagons, devoting two or three days to the excursion, and the local excitement was intense. The two parties endeavored to excel each other in processions, music, fireworks, and novel features. At each town salutes114 would be fired and an address of welcome delivered by some prominent citizen. Sometimes committees of ladies would present the speakers bouquets of flowers, and on one occasion they wound garlands around the lank and awkward form of the future President, much to his embarrassment and dismay. After a debate at Ottawa, the enthusiasm was so great that a party of his admirers carried him on their shoulders from the meeting to the house where he was being entertained.

Lincoln did not underrate the ability or the advantages of his opponent. He realized fully the serious character and importance of the contest in which he was engaged. He was aware that the entire country was watching him with anxious eyes, and that he was addressing not only the multitudes that gathered around the platforms, but the entire population of the United States. He knew also that whatever he might say would have a permanent effect upon the fortunes of the Republican party, then only two years old, not to speak of his own personal destiny.

He knew Douglas as well and perhaps better than Douglas knew himself. They had been acquainted from boyhood, and their lives had run in parallels in a most remarkable manner. They had met at the threshold of their political careers. They had served together in the Legislature twenty-three years before. They were admitted to practice at the bar of the Supreme Court together. They had been rivals for the hand of the same lady, as related in a previous chapter. They served together in Congress. They had met repeatedly, and had measured strength in the Legislature, in the courts, and on the platform. They had always been upon outwardly friendly terms, but each knew that the other disliked him intensely. It is probable that his inquisitive nature and analytical habits gave Lincoln a better knowledge of the strong and weak points of his antagonist. He was very thorough in whatever he undertook, while115 Douglas was more confident and careless in his preparation. Lincoln knew that in the whole field of American politics there was no man so adroit or aggressive or gifted in the tricks and strategy of debate, and in this contest Douglas showed his fullest power. Lincoln's talents and habits were entirely different. He indulged in no tricks and made no effort to dazzle audiences. His fairness of statement and generosity were well known and understood by Mr. Douglas, who took advantage of them. His high standard of political morals and his devotion to constitutional principles were equally well understood, and Douglas took advantage of those also.

Douglas electrified the crowds with his eloquence and charmed them by his grace and dexterity. He was forcible in statement, aggressive in assertion, and treated Lincoln in a patronizing and contemptuous manner; but Lincoln's simplicity of statement, his homely illustrations, quaint originality, and convincing logic were often more forcible than the lofty flights of eloquence in which his opponent indulged. He was more careful and accurate in his statement of facts, and his knowledge of the details of history and the legislation of Congress was a great advantage, for he convicted Douglas of misrepresentation again and again, although it seemed to have had no effect whatever upon the confidence of the latter's supporters. As usual, Mr. Lincoln kept close to the subject and spoke to convince and not to amuse or entertain. When one of his friends suggested that his reputation for story-telling was being destroyed by the seriousness of his speeches, Lincoln replied that this was no time for jokes.

One of the gentlemen who accompanied Mr. Lincoln has given us the following description of his appearance and manner of speaking: "When standing erect he was six feet four inches high.