The friendship between P, S, M, A and S makes me think that a real friendship is extremely hard to find or establish.
It seems like the things happened between them, the words they say and the way they think, i have known well like the back of my hand. The reason may because i have seen a lot of events like that when i was studying in the high school in Hong Kong.
The students always say ' Forever Friends' or 'i love you my friends'. I then may ask 'Do u really love your friends?' and 'Would you keep this friendship whatever happens?'. My answer for this is 'No', we would not able to do that, except we have a strong connection between each other.Friendship can be either very strong or weak. it is depending upon what we do, what we think, understand about friends.
The relationship can be kept when both sides people want. In the other words, the connection between people can be broken if they don't want to keep it anymore. Sometimes, we would ignore our friends because they are being replaced in your life by other things like gender sex friends. I think it is one of the frogs people have to experience before turnning 'Best Friend'.
These words 'Best Friend' has an important meaning that we have to understand each other deeply, show you really care, give a hand willingly whatever happens is harsh. I may missing some factors. These points are what i understand 'Best Friend'.
I am always standing on S's view/situation to feel what she is experiencing. I feel extremely hard if i were her. She is like at the middle of two sides: 'S and P's and 'M and A'. They was very friend with each other as S told me. However, they are separated into two sides because they feel don't like each anymore. Perhaps it is the ago their minds are changing. It is really hard for her to balance both sides...................
When do you able to find ur 'real friends'?
i think the answer may be that you can find it when u are experiencing sth very harsh and this kind of people would come out and say deep words to encourage u to make u stand up again. Heart, it is the one i like the most in this world. There should have a heart connection between each other, we can have a deep conversation.
IF u have found one, you have to remain it as well as ur important things.
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