剛剛讀了一篇小品，很想分享。
我們生活在這個繁榮紛擾的社會裡，每一刻都是在競爭的步伐，無法避免。挫折也隨之而來，面對這些該怎辦? 抱怨或也會不其然產生。我們該做一個寬宏大量的人才是，人的一生至少要原諒三個人:
一. 必須原諒自己 - 人生在世，不如意事十常八九，人總有犯錯及不能及的事情，也不能得到每個人的認同，所以要保持微笑對人及寬容自己，這樣就可好過了。
二. 必須原諒敵人 - 在社會裡 工作，壓力越來越大，難免有人與我想法不一樣，在背後議論，或誹謗我，把我當做敵人。這時，我該以一顆寬容的心對待，因為我的憤怒會影響我自己及家人，而不是別人。
三. 必須原諒朋友 - 在找尋快樂的途中，越是親密的朋友，越是傷害自己更大。朋友對我的傷害可能是無意，抑或是妒忌之心激起一時衝動。要原諒朋友，因為他們曾經給我幫助及快樂。好讓我們在生活中學會寬容。
希望看完這些見解後，我和我的朋友也學懂"原諒"。
Read an article about "forgive". Want to share with all of you.
In our community, we are being challenged all the time. Problems and difficulties are always besides us. How can we solve? We complain or grumble..... However, we should be acting as large-minded people. So, we have to forgive 3 kinds of guy:
1. We forgive ourselves – Living in the world, we are facing many unhappy situations. Everyone would make mistakes and regrets and not be identified. So, we should keep our smiles to forgive ourselves at least, then we will feel much more better.
2. We forgive our enemies – Among the community we are working, pressure is more and more, it is hard to avoid whoever has the different mind. By the fact that, it is unavoidable to be remarked and or being calumniate, even then to be treated as enemy. Then, we have to deal with that smilingly and pleasant. Because my anger will make negative effect to me and my family, but not my enemies.
3. We forgive our friends – Among our live, friends are closely with us. It will be more and more downhill if I hurt by my best friend. Perhaps, they do not take to heart, or just an impulse by envy. We have to forgive our friends. Because they ever have brought happiness and support to me and give me a chance to learn the forgiveness.
Last but not least, I would like to tell my friend to learn ‘how to forgive”.
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